This is a message to someone special. Might be you, might not.
It’s all good. Remember watching Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer all those years ago and the Island of the Misfit Toys and you thought, “That’s me” ? Me too. And it’s all good.
Don’t like who you’re supposed to like? Care about things other people think are too small or too big? You dig into history while the people around you parrot what their peer group says? Fuck ’em. Seriously, fuck ’em. No one is trying to make you better. They’re just trying to make you more like them. That’s how they define better– conformity.
Not that long ago, a friend wanted to introduce me to one of his people. I asked, “What’s he like?” R said, “He’s broken, but he’s broken our way.” R is one of the most effective individuals I know, even if he is broken. Because he’s broken my way.
It’s all good. We are all misfit toys. Find your family-of-choice. Cherish them deeply and protect them fiercely. Be proud. You may be a broken toy in this strangely plastic hothouse world, but when that world shatters you are the one who will function. They still won’t like you, but they will need you. And that is something.
Happy birthday, HM