Enforcing Limits on Unwanted Behavior – Erik Kondo

Violence is less likely to be random and senseless and more likely to be used as a tool for to achieving a goal. Many times this goal is enforcing limits on (stopping) unwanted behavior. Enforcement can also be seen as punishment for breaking the Rules of Behavior. Here are some examples:

Unwanted Behavior: Depantsing
Enforcement: Physical action by Target

 

Unwanted Behavior: Bullying
Enforcement: Physical intervention from Bystander

 

Unwanted Behavior: Bullying
Enforcement: Physical action by Target

 

Unwanted Behavior: Harassment
Enforcement: Physical action by Target


Unwanted Behavior: Harassment
Enforcement: Physical Action by Target

 

Unwanted Behavior: Assault on a Police Officer
Enforcement: Arrest

 

Unwanted Behavior: Intimidation
Enforcement: Physical Action by Brother

 

COMMENT by Erik Kondo

Sometimes body language and verbal assertiveness are not enough to limit unwanted behavior.  Sometimes, the physical actions of the Physical Fence are necessary to enforce the Rules of Behavior.

Enforcement needs to be “Just-Right” in order to create respect. Over-enforcement leads to a backlash. Under-enforcement leads to contempt for the Rules. The appropriate amount of enforcement is dependent upon the context of the situation.

The actions in the video are a form of Rory’s Educational Beatdown (EBD) – Social violence that both sends a message and stops unwanted behavior.

 

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