The Tyranny of Feelings – Marc MacYoung

   From a conversation about feelings ****First off. Take your finger, press it into your arm. That’s ‘feeling.’Emotions are emotions.Where things get tricky is that along with emotions come adrenaline, muscle tension and changes in perception (a different part of the brain — that does something else becomes active). Until you learn how to suppress … [Read more…]

Ignorance is not a sustainable paradigm in violence professions – Marc MacYoung

SSgt Grizzly Bear has a saying “Ignorance is not a sustainable paradigm in violence professions.”Unfortunately bad information from your instructor can (and will) get you killed, hospitalized, imprisoned or sued. While I hope and pray that nobody I teach ever has to use the information, I know that some of them will find themselves in … [Read more…]

Winning the Superbowl of Violence – Marc MacYoung

Okay, I admit it, I’m grumbling about work again. There’s a huge swagger factor of thinking you know an ultimate fighting system … oops, I mean a ‘street tested’ self-defense system. However, I strongly believe there’s a lot more going on under the surface. Something that is, in fact, about all kinds of things other than personal … [Read more…]

Hyper-Advocates and Two Types of Problem Solving Methodologies – Erik Kondo

There are many ways in which people try to solve problems in their lives and in the world. But, there are two widely used methods that take completely opposite approaches. The method used is usually a function of the person’s Locus of Control. Internal Locus Problem Solving (ILPS)- Someone with an Internal Locus of Control … [Read more…]