Parts and Wholes – Rory Miller

Planning the section on defense for “InFighting.” And there’s a snag. Not a big one, probably easily solved, but it is part of the schism between learning and doing. Or talking and doing. Or, obviously, writing and doing. Infighting is close work. And fast. You have to do most of it by touch. And defense … [Read more…]

Teaching, Training, Conditioning and Play – Rory Miller

Be careful with the language here.  I will be using the word ‘training’ as a generic term for the different methods to get something into your student’s heads. At the same time, I will be using the word as a very specific type of training with deep drawbacks.  It’s kind of like ‘fighting’ in that sense.  We need … [Read more…]

Just Breathe – Rory Miller

Are you having fun?” The student grins, “Yes.” “Are you getting hurt?” He looks a little confused,”No.” “Then there’s no reason to be so tense. Relax. Breathe.” RC pointed out that in certain professions, sleep deprivation is just a natural state. Whether you’re a pager slave or you do shift work; whether it’s crossing time … [Read more…]

On Maslow – Rory Miller

MASLOW In 1943 Abraham Maslow published his famous hierarchy of needs. The idea was simple.  If you are in danger of dying—starving, thirsty, sick or about to be killed and eaten– that is your highest priority.  Until you have taken care of your immediate survival needs you don’t give a damn, and you don’t waste … [Read more…]

For Love – Rory Miller

People are afraid of violence. And some of them make the choice to train to protect themselves from violence. But training isn’t free. Not financially, not physically, not emotionally. How much do you have in your wallet or purse right now? Credit cards and stuff, too. If you are afraid of getting mugged, that is … [Read more…]