Lots of False, Lots of True – Rory Miller

Writing on something. This one is hard. Probably broader and more complex than anything else I’ve tackled. Teaching and learning for emergency skills.  The passage I’m working on now is the experience threshold issue: Because most people have so little experience with violence, they go into violent professions with no idea of what a “normal” … [Read more…]

The Alpha – Marc MacYoung

One of my greatest ‘Oops,’ was introducing the concept of Alpha to the self-defense world. I’ve done my best to back off the idea and admit my error. That’s because too many people THINK they understand the concept. Here — although it is fiction — is a good summation of how wolfpacks actually work. (Yes, … [Read more…]

Ten Reasons Why Self-Defense Works for Some, But Not for Others – Erik Kondo

Lately, the idea of teaching people, particularly women, self-defense as a method for increasing personal safety has come under attack. A primary complaint from certain advocates/bloggers is that self-defense doesn’t work or is ineffective. As proof, many of these advocates will point out real life examples in which they, or someone they know, were assaulted … [Read more…]

Walk with “Deterrence” Not Just “Confidence” – Erik Kondo

“Walk with confidence”. This is a very commonly repeated sound bite of personal safety advice given by self-defense instructors all over the world. The basic concept is that human predators are looking for weak and vulnerable victims. Those that project an attitude of confidence show themselves to not be weak and vulnerable, and thus are … [Read more…]