Author: CRGI
Can I Do 27 Stupid Things and Still Be Safe? – Marc MarcYoung

I get tired of people asking me for ‘fear management’ questions and ‘how can I do 27 stupid things and still be safe? I do not live in a world of insults, loss of face, feelings or self-esteem issues. I do live in a world of danger. Dangers usually created by selfish and reckless … [Read more…]
Smart Meme vs. Dumb Meme – Erik Kondo

The internet is awash with memes. Many of these memes are designed to convey a point of view or explain a subject. Many memes can be divided into two types, Smart Memes and Dumb Memes. Smart Memes have the effect of making you smarter by providing insight, by showing you a new perspective, or … [Read more…]
Quiz: Why Study Violence Dynamics? – Rory Miller

You must study problems in order to find solutions. If self-defense techniques are the answers, Violence Dynamics is the study of the problem. I have designed models that I am very happy and successful with, but they are models, not truths. So it will take some work to be sure that I’m making a checklist … [Read more…]
Beware the Dangers of Joining the Orgy of Contempt – Erik Kondo

From what I see on my Facebook feed, there is a huge uptick people expressing their feelings of contempt. Prior to the election, my image of a person expressing contempt was that of a teenager displaying her (or his) lack of interest in an activity with the facial expression of “that’s stupid” written all over … [Read more…]
Let’s Make America Strong – Erik Kondo

Are you interested in making America strong? Here are my thoughts on how you can help do it. Making a strong America requires having more strong Americans. What does it mean to be a strong American? It means to be a strong person. What does it mean to be a strong person? Being a … [Read more…]
Back to One – Rory Miller

There’s something I’ve written about, thresholds, and it’s not quite right. Experience with violence rewires you. The person who has survived a violent encounter is not the same person as they were before the violent encounter. Five encounters later, there’s another definite change. Then another and another and another. Six discrete stages is as … [Read more…]
Self-defense and the Elephant in the Room – Marc MacYoung

I teach ‘self-defense.’ As such I can tell you locus of control is the elephant in the room. Which is kind of funny because everyone is arguing over the elephant poop problem, but denying there’s an elephant standing there. If I may beg your indulgence I’d like you to do two actions. First, hold … [Read more…]
Under-Enforcement Breeds Contempt – Erik Kondo

Contempt is a form of lack of respect. In terms of interpersonal relationships, it describes an aspect of how a person feels about someone else. It also can describe how someone feels about something inanimate such as an institution, rule, or law. The key point here is that contempt is an emotion. It is not … [Read more…]