Seven Primary Ways of Conflict Management, Part II – Erik Kondo

There are seven primary ways of Conflict Management. They are Change Others, By-Proxy, Avoidance, Negotiation, Deterrence, By-Force, and Mitigation. There are seven primary ways of Conflict Mis-management. They are Change Others, By-Proxy, Avoidance, Negotiation, Deterrence, By-Force, and Mitigation. Yes, the methods of conflict management can also be the methods of conflict mis-management and vice-versa. What works in one … [Read more…]

Learning Leads to Varying Degrees of Understanding, Part I – Erik Kondo

Learning Leads to Degrees of Understanding, Part II High understanding is the result of effective learning. Effective Learning is the result of the combination of Three Modes of Learning. These modes are: Conceptualization Training Experience Conceptualization is the mode where you are consciously thinking about what you are trying to understand.  This is typically exemplified … [Read more…]

It’s About Enforcement – Erik Kondo

In the world of personal safety, it is inevitable to run across the debate of whether people should discuss/focus on/think about/act on teaching potential victims how not to be victimized OR discuss/focus on/think about/act on teaching potential perpetrators not to victimize. This issue is particularly pertinent to self-defense promoters who are commonly accused of Victim-Blaming … [Read more…]

The Seven Primary Ways of Conflict Management – Erik Kondo

Human life has been and always will be filled interpersonal conflict. These conflicts range from mild disagreements to murder. Conflicts are the natural result of people have opposing interests. When it comes to handling interpersonal conflict, everyone has a “way” (strategy/methodology) of dealing with it. In fact, everyone has their own unique way. These many … [Read more…]