Is Your Belief System the Fantasy Island of Self-defense? – Erik Kondo

      The above video series is great examples of a Belief System. What is a belief system? According to Wikipedia: A “belief system” is a set of mutually supportive beliefs. The beliefs of any such system can be classified as religious, philosophical, ideological, or a combination of these. In layman’s terms: “Belief systems … [Read more…]

Wheelchair Self-defense: On Using Your Wheelchair as a Weapon and More

I have repeatedly come across internet self-defense “advice” for wheelchair users. The majority of the suggestions provided usually refer to how to “fight back” against attackers. The two main themes usually consists of (a) using your wheelchair as a weapon and (b) how to use being lower than you attacker as an advantage. My first … [Read more…]

Conflict Management Media: Episode #11 – Homeowner vs. Bully

In this episode of CMM, we learn from a conflict between a homeowner (local martial arts instructor) and the neighborhood bully. Someone’s description: Patient off duty martial arts instructor   Commentary by Marc MacYoung Actually, no, yes, maybe, kinda, sorta … this video will give you false expectations about violence. (Doncha jes’ luv simple answers?) … [Read more…]

Convergence – Rory Miller

Philosophy. Nothing about survival or self-protection or self-defense or whatever you want to call it is difficult or unnatural. This is exactly the problem we were evolved to solve. Not being a victim is part of our deepest wiring. Mind, body and spirit have all the tools. This is not about forging warriors, this is … [Read more…]

Mind the Gap: Part II – Marc MacYoung

There were things that used to be taught/enforced/assumed/demanded by circumstances. We’ve moved away from them without understandinga) why they’re important orb) how they affect our attitudes.For example, I didn’t watch Deadwood when it was first airing. Years later when it came onto Netflix I did a marathon. One scene that particularly stands out in my … [Read more…]