5 Signs Your Facebook Friend is a Supporter of Terrorism – Erik Kondo

  It’s a frightening thought. Your friend on Facebook encourages terrorism. But before discussing the indicators of someone who aids terrorists, a little background is required. Terrorism is a tactic. According to the FBI, terrorism is intended to “(i) to intimidate or coerce a civilian population; (ii) to influence the policy of a government by … [Read more…]

The 12 Universal Elements of Conflict Management – Erik Kondo

The following is a selected post from Conflict Manager Magazine. Full access to this monthly magazine is available to subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Interesting in submitting an article for publication? Email: editor@ConflictManagerMagazine.com.  “A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor” – English Proverb It is likely that there will come a time when … [Read more…]

The Fear Factor Part III:  Developing the Objective Mind – Paul McRedmond (Conflict Manager Magazine: APRIL, 2015)

The following is a selected post from Conflict Manager Magazine. Full access to this monthly magazine is available to subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Interesting in submitting an article for publication? Email: editor@ConflictManagerMagazine.com. You’re not you when you’re scared. More precisely, you’re only a small part of you, that part where your normally rational … [Read more…]

The Fear Factor, Pt II: Mind-Set and the Martial Arts Spectrum – Paul McRedmond (Conflict Manager Magazine, APRIL 2015)

The following is a selected post from Conflict Manager Magazine. Full access to this monthly magazine is available to subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Interesting in submitting an article for publication? Email: editor@ConflictManagerMagazine.com. Goal COMBAT: Kill High adrenaline, emotional commitment and SELF-DEFENSE: Escape ‘spiritual’ cost, extreme legal repercussions DEFENSIVE TACTICS: Control SPORT: Win ART: … [Read more…]

The Fear Factor, Pt 1: Adrenaline and the Arts – Paul McRedmond (Conflict Manager Magazine APRIL, 2015)

The following is a selected post from Conflict Manager Magazine. Full access to this monthly magazine is available to subscribers only. Click here to subscribe. Interesting in submitting an article for publication? Email: editor@ConflictManagerMagazine.com. You’re not you when you’re scared. And if you ARE scared – under the influence of the survival brain where the … [Read more…]

Just-Right Communication Enables Just-Right Enforcement – Erik Kondo

The goal of effective boundary setting is to eliminate violations. Violations are eliminated by the creation of Respect. Respect is created by Just-Right Enforcement. In order to create Just-Right Enforcement, Just-Right Communication is required. Just-Right Communication enables Just-Right Enforcement because 1. It is NOT Under-Communication which creates confusion about the rules. 2. It is NOT … [Read more…]

When the sign says “No Guns Allowed” – Marc MacYoung

I was asked by a concealed carrier what his self-defense options are in businesses and locations that prohibit firearms (which as property owners IS their right). It’s a simple question, but not a simple answer…. **** Okay, you’re asking a very important question. But you’re approaching it from a direction that, while it seems to … [Read more…]