On Self-reliance vs. Group-reliance – Marc MacYoung

This was in response to a younger man’s declaration of self-reliance, strength, how dysfunctional groups weaken you and promote weakness. His final summation was that family was a place where he’d return to lick his wounds. …. Oh what a difference a few decades make.I really understand the position of total self-reliance. It was mine … [Read more…]

‘Traditional’ martial arts vs. MMA vs. real fighting – Marc MacYoung

I just had someone ask about that tired old “traditional martial arts don’t work against the MMA/grappler ‘shoot’ (a lower leg tackle)” argument. **** First let’s make sure we’re using the same meanings of words. I have a friend who breaks down Japanese martial arts in three tiers: Commercialized Traditional Classic Classic is pre-WWII stuff … [Read more…]

Doing the Math of Violence – Marc MacYoung

I am constantly asked ‘what do you do if…?’ questions. These are seemingly simple questions that don’t have simple answers (And giving simple answers [You just do this] is both lying and dangerous misinformation.) Someone painted multiple ambush scenarios and basically asked — for each — ‘charge or run?’ He referenced an incident where a … [Read more…]

Gaslighting, Labists and Social Justice Warriors – Marc MacYoung

Actually I’m not impressed in telling someone their experiences, feelings and opinions are wrong. It’s not only negating, but it’s the first step to gaslighting. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting Yet telling others what they think is a real common strategy for the social justice warrior crowd. Second who the fuck is the author to authoritatively state ‘this is … [Read more…]