Seven Things Effective People Know About Boundary Setting – Erik Kondo

  Most people think that Boundary Setting only has something to do with a “personal bubble” and “personal space”. Effective people know better. 1. Boundary Setting is fundamental to civilization. All effective individuals, groups, organizations, and societies use Boundary Setting to control and limit behaviors. Chaos and mayhem are the result of a lack of … [Read more…]

Mixed Messages and Unrealistic Expectations – Marc Macyoung

First, notice the implication of complete nudity — not dressed, nekkid. The sign — regardless of the message — combined with nudity in this culture brings it closer to burlesque. It is deliberately titillating — designed for a look, but don’t touch.Also the contrapposto pose to emphasize the hips and buttocks. As well as the head … [Read more…]

Assessment, Alternatives and Articulation – Marc MacYoung

In speaking of “In the Name of Self-Defense: What it Costs. When it’s worth it,” Anthony M. mentioned that his firearms instructors talked about the “Combat Triad consisting of Marksmanship, Gunhandling, and Mindset.” My response: Good model there. Dropping into a similar mode I’ll say there are three important aspects of mindset (not only three, … [Read more…]

The Rise of the Toxic Unfairist and the Spread of Toxic Unfairism – Erik Kondo

A Toxic Unfairist is an activist who spreads feelings of Toxic Unfairism in society. What exactly is “unfair” varies from person to person, group to group, and movement to movement. Unfairism Is the belief that society is not treating a certain segment or group of the population in a fair and just manner. Toxic Unfairism is … [Read more…]